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Loneliness is bless for me !! Changing experience.

Loneliness
Loneliness

Loneliness turn into something positive

Loneliness !! may some people do not go with me but I share my personal experiences why sometimes being alone is really effective. I quit my job more than one year in this time I live totally alone in my house, even I don’t mix with my front flat neighbor so closely if they come I welcome them but I never show them any interest to chat because I  try to avoid the wrong company. Wrong company means whose principles do not go with me. I mean those people who do not share same values and believe. They always give me unhappy time. It seems to me probably I am wasting my precious time.

By the way, I notice myself during this time I discover myself many things. This time allow me to grow better person. Whatever I read in this short time I do not read past decade, how much I have prayed I do not pray in past decade. The skills that I have acquired during this time, it gives me this realization that it is more important that to complete my graduation.  It is really more significant to improve my life. Life does not only means to run for money. I learn how to spend quality time with myself. I learn what is self-discovery, how it is important our life. Relaxation and to know more myself teach me what is life, how we have to enjoy it. I have some bad habits, one of them was to get angry with silly causes. But this loneliness make me better one now.  I really appreciate that it’s better to spend that time with yourself.

loneliness is better !!

Some people do not think that it is good one. I do not say that whole life being alone is better. I say that if you are living long relationship. And passing each and every day with same routine, you have to feel being alone sometimes for yourself as it is rally beneficial to discover yourself. But before that you have to know how to learn positively. If you want healthy relationship you have to pass alone with the people that you are involved in. Unfortunately, many people are passing unhealthy relationship because only they causes is that they do not know themselves, they don’t know one another. It is far better being alone than waste my precious time and energy with the wrong people.

Why loneliness is important to me?

First time, when I feel lonely in my house from long time. I am able to discover myself .I am my best possible self, I gain a confidence that is truly honest. I am then able to be a better friend. My relationships become more stable and rewarding. I am also able to invite only people into my life who fit my standards. People who match with me in pride, ambition and character.

Loneliness quotes

Loneliness and the feeling of being unwanted is the most terrible poverty.
Mother Teresa

Nothing makes us more vulnerable than loneliness, except greed.
Thomas Harris

I’m not sure whether I’ve been happy. After my last book tour, I sat on my balcony with a cup of tea. I thought: ‘You can’t rewind the movie. I’ve spent more than half my life in the Middle East. There have been great moments of horror and depression and loneliness.

Robert Fisk

People drain me, even the closest of friends, and I find loneliness to be the best state in the union to live in.
Margaret Cho

But I also think all of the great stories in literature deal with loneliness. Sometimes it’s by way of heartbreak, sometimes it’s by way of injustice, sometimes it’s by way of fate. There’s an infinite number of ways to examine it.
Tom Hanks

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